Julie Lindstrom got her first camera in fifth grade and
she’s been passionate about photos ever since. “My father died when he was just
35,” she explains. “Not having many photos of him has always made me really aware
of how important it is to take, keep and celebrate those pictures.”
She’s always loved taking pictures … she’s just never been
all that great at it. “I’m not terrible,” laughs Julie. “Just nothing special.
I point. I shoot.”
So a few years ago when her nephew Wiley started showing her
some of his photos, she had a wake-up moment. “Wiley had taken all these exciting,
engaging, amazing pictures. So much more dramatic than mine. And when I
questioned him about it, he told me something I’ll never forget. He said,
‘You’ve gotta get off of that green square.’ ”
Now, what Wiley meant was that she needed to switch her
camera off the auto setting and start experimenting. And, to a degree, she did.
“He inspired me to take a photography class and I learned a lot. Though I’m
still not great.”
But beyond that, Wiley’s advice has reminded her how
important it is to take control and live a life with meaning, with excitement
and with purpose.

As Julie tells it, “Wiley’s an inspiration. Top 3 percent of
his class, wrestling, marching band, swimming, playing drums, active in church…
He’s the kind of kid who would smuggle a 10-pound bag of suckers into his bag
for a church mission trip. Then he’d pull it out with a smile and say, ‘Let’s
go make some kids happy.’ ”

He travelled the world with his family. He was well on his
way toward his pilot’s license. He was accepted to Arizona State University…
And he died last summer in a tragic fall, taking a picture of a waterfall in
Hawaii while vacationing with his father.
Eighteen years is a very short life. But Wiley packed a lot
into that time. And he had an aunt who understood the importance of capturing
and celebrating the time we have. Julie had already prepared a big, beautiful
StoryBook photo book project for Wiley’s high school graduation. After he died,
she was able to quickly revise it and add even more pages before printing the
StoryBook as a gift for Wiley’s father.

“When I made the book for Wiley, it was supposed to be for
him to enjoy, not be part of his funeral,” says Julie. “But I’m so glad I did
it, because it was able to tell the all-too-short story of his life.”

“And when I look at it, I see all the places he went and the
things he did and the people he touched.” And none of those things happened on
the green square.

UPDATE
Just this month, top-performing Creative Memories Consultants from across North America came together for our 2013 incentive trip. And this year's destination happened to be Hawaii. As fate would have it, Julie's friend and upline Consultant, Karen Blanc of Nebraska, earned that trip.
On the trip, Karen made time to walk the Road to Hana trail on Maui. And somewhere near mile marker 25, she placed this memorial that Julie created.

Thank you for sharing your story, Julie.
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